The crumpet is a simple little thing. Just water and flour and a rising agent. It is little more than a formed pancake and yet with some butter and sunlight it can begin a day with buttery crunchy kindness. It is very simple – toast it, slather it, eat it. Some tea or coffee and some silent sunlight and you have the makings of a fine little breakfast. They sell them at Sprouts.
Advent is such a loud time for the world around the church. The noise makes headlines on the morning after Thanksgiving day in which one wonders at the insanity f a shopping season designed by politicians to launch with Thanksgiving and end with the New Year. Shoppers wander as if in a zombie state of forced march and the purchases light wires with digital math.
One year I was given a set of crumpets for Christmas on the second week of Advent. It is one of those gifts one never forgets. Every day I sat with that crunchy butter sponge and a cup of tea (the gift came with six crumpets and six tea bags. Of all the merchandise I have received (and dropped off at the Goodwill deck) I remember this set of crumpets and tea bags. Within a week they were gone and yet they come back to my mind every Advent inviting me to take this season in a countercultural way.
What if we made a pact with ourselves that all our Christmas gifts would be ones which facilitated a brief time of silence and delight for the one to whom our gifts are given but which are consumed within a week – and gone? Some cookies. Some tea. Some hot chocolate ingredients. A gift certificate for a massage. What if our gifts were gifts of silent delight? What if that kind of gift was our statement to a culture which has simply gone mad with the giving of gifts which end up in yard sales? And what if that gift were given with an offer of time – that gold standard of our day?
Dear you;
Please enjoy this bread, tea and jam. May we have it together one day next week so that we may connect and encourage our friendship?
Love, me. Merry Advent.